Yes, we are still here! People are getting worried because I have not posted lately (and Juli is having Mari withdrawal!). So here’s some catching up. Work has been brutally busy, so pure exhaustion has taken over. This past week was especially stressful; my Uncle Phillip died last Friday in an accident which blew us all away. So my parents and oldest brother Todd flew to Oklahoma for the funeral. My uncle worked for American Airlines and they were super helpful in assisting my family with flights...however, last week was pretty tough on that airline. Thankfully, they only missed one flight as they hopped across the country. I spent the week trying to figure out after-hours childcare as my parents usually pick up Mari for me (daycare closes before I get off work). So my brother Chad and his wife Lesa stepped in and helped me so much (and my other SIL, Diana, was on standby ready to step in for childcare too). It is so nice to have a great family nearby...this crazy week definitely made all my "single-parent" fears come to a head. I haven’t found single-parenting too hard thus far (except when I was sick with mono) but I also have never experienced couple-parenting (the old adage...you don’t miss what you never had). But this week definitely brought up some situations that prove I’m in for a ride!
So what have we been doing? Last Sunday, Mari and I met with Tammie from CHI (at an info meeting in my hometown). Tammie was the very first person I ever talked to from CHI and has been a great source of support. Mari is Tammie’s "first-born" CHI kid as we are the first family to make it entirely through the process since she started (most of the families in VA are apparently on the longer waiting lists of other countries). We had a great time just catching up.
The week was filled with me working and Mari bouncing around. I had my parents dog, Daniel, at my house for most of the week. He is a husky/pyrennes mix; he is big and fluffy and lets Mari pull his hair...so both Mari and Ollie-dog were very happy with the addition to the family. Mari got to play with cousin Madi several times...they are so cute together. They have really started to interact with each other. Madi had pinkeye and she was kind enough to share it with Mari (I think this might be the first thing they’ve actually shared!). But nothing a little ointment can’t fix.
Saturday morning we headed into a neighboring town to a photography studio so Mari could get her pix taken. She was very good until it was time for pix of us together...by then she was sleepy, hungry and tired of getting her clothes changed. So the pix of the two of us aren’t great (I HATE having my picture taken) but the rest were fabulous. I’ll post them soon once the link is up.
So that is the big update...on to some pix.
For all those that say "Mari is always so happy!" Guess what? I can throw a major tantrum when I want to. Post-tantrum snot-licking! Look at my cute curls sticking out above my barrettes! When Mommy takes the barrettes out at night, it looks like I have little horns. Mommy calls me "little devil"
Here is what I look like when I first wake up from a nap! Me and my best friend Madi!
Mommy washed my Ethiopian dress so I could wear it for my photo shoot. She decided to wash several of them (since she was handwashing them and then carefully packing them away). She still has two more left to do. Our deck looked very Ethiopian that day with the makeshift clothesline.
Mommy mentioned a long time ago that I was getting a very special birthday gift. It was this lion. Why is it so special? Scroll down to the next picture.
Here is Mommy on a Fisher-Price lion that she got as a Christmas gift when she was my age. Pretty cool, huh? 30ish years difference (you probably could tell that by the color of the carpet!).
Finally, a special request from Cousin Brendan. Videos of Miss Mari. The first video is Mari's FIRST "assisted steps" (I'm not sure she knows what her knees are for yet...a little stiff-legged!). The second is a sweet rendition of our daily "dada, mama" game.
10 comments:
Ahhhhhhhhh,I loved the video!
OMG!the lion! That is so cool that you had one,and found one for your little one too!
Jill,
Its really fun seeing Mari growing up so cute! I just can't help loving that little girl after meeting her in Ethiopia.
Noelle (Anna Etagegnehu's mom)
Thanks for the videos! Brendan came running!! Now we have 2 new ones to watch 50 times a day. Love the picture of her screaming!! Classic tantrum!
So sorry to read about your uncle. My sympathy to you and your family.
I loved the photos and update on Mari. Also, thanks for your encouraging email...I have lots to get back to you about.
We send our condolences to your family, this must be a difficult time.
Thanks for sharing the Mari pics, she is definitely one of the most adorable girls I've ever seen!
She is simply adorable. I can't wait to see what our little girl is like. The waiting is the hard part, but looking at your blog keeps us motivated and patient. So sorry for the loss of your uncle.
Mari is so adorable. My husband and I have decided Ethiopia as our country for adoption. We will start our journey July 21, 08. I just love these pictures.
Regina - Nashville
Micah LOVES the mama video! It makes him smile. :)
The snot-licking is classic! Oh how I laughed!
gee whiz she's a cutie-patootie! Love those little barrette.
So sorry about your uncle. Hugs to you and your family.
christi
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